Do you pay attention to your whims? A whim; an odd or capricious notion or desire.
To pay attention is the key to the question.
A few whims I've found so far;
Riding in the back of a pick up truck while lying down after dark.
Driving a vehicle with the windows down while listening to loud classical music.
Smiling at every face I see.
Jumping on a trampoline in the rain.
Watching the steam from my coffee.
Petting soft fabric.
Talking to trees.
I share these with you in hopes that you will pay attention to your whims, that you will remember them, and will continue to find more.
If you are suffering a bad day or year, remind yourself of your unique desires, repeat a whim or two and remember life can be a wonder.
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